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<<Portrait of Lala Hargobind drawn
by Kiran in her school days.Lala
Hargobind
(Kiran's great-great-grandfather)
Lala Hargobind, a businessman
migrated to Amritsar, Punjab in 1860 from Peshawar (now in Pakistan) and thus got the name
Peshawaria. Set up a Sarai (Inn) called "Peshawaria Dharmashala" for the pilgrims
visiting the famous Golden Temple in Amritsar. He was succeeded in the business by his son,
Lala Chajju Mal who expanded the business of the family and moved into textiles. He
constructed charitable inns at Haridwar and Vrindavan two religious cities of India.
All these inns still exist and are being run by "Peshawaria
Trust "
. The couple had five sons Lala Kishan Chand, Lala Muni Lal
who was Kiran's grandfather, Lala Dina Nath, Lala Sita Ram, Lala Madan Gopal, and two
daughters Ram Bhejo and Lalto. |
Lala Muni Lal
and Pritam Kaur
(Kiran's grandparents) |
Lala Muni Lal was the most dynamic person in the family.
His close proximity to the British Government Officers, politicians and the business circle
had earned him an enviable status in the society. The family prospered further and built many
properties. People often approached Lala Muni Lal for sifarish (recommendations)
to various authorities, when in need of help. A great disciplinarian, Kiran draws her
inspiration from him. Kiran's grandmother Pritam Kaur was a devout lady and a regular visitor
to the Golden Temple. Kiran's father Prakash is third in a family of four sons, the others
being Manohar Lal, Man Mohan, Narender and three daughters Banarso, Pushpal and Mahender.
Kiran's paternal and maternal families were secular and strongly value based.
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Prakash
Lal Peshawaria and
Prem Lata Peshawaria
(Kiran's parents)
Prakash, a sensitive young man was inclined academically,
but was not allowed to continue as he had to join the family business. He however, had liberal
access to the best of the clubs in Amritsar to pursue his interest in tennis. He married
Prem Lata née Janak Arora, a brilliant student of her time. The couple had four daughters
Shashi, Kiran, Reeta and Anu. Both Prakash and Prem Lata had
a vision ahead of their time and were in no way conventional in the upbringing of their
daughters. They believed in giving them the best of the education which was not the trend of
the times. Daughters then were considered liabilities, to be married off with hefty dowries.
In fact, when Kiran's grandfather found out that the girls would be enrolled in a convent, he
withdrew the family's allowances. But, inspite of these obstacles the girls got a motivating
and enthusiastic environment in which they got to realise their potential, be it academic or
sports, particularly tennis which they learnt from their father who had become an ace player
himself. All daughters moved on to excel in their chosen vocations. Shashi in the
field of philosophy and art, Kiran in uniformed services, Reeta in the field of psychology and
Anu in law while having also played at the Wimbledon, Asian Games and the Universiad where she
represented India.
The family suffered a major blow recently when
Kiran's mother Prem Lata expired in May 1999. Kiran was extremely close to her mother, and the
loss, in Kiran's own words,"is irrepairable". Her mother symbolized discipline, grit
and determination. Kiran was once asked if she would like to be reborn to which she replied
only if she had the same parents.
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Father
& Mother |
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The
Peshawaria Sisters —
Kiran, Anu, Shashi and Reeta |
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Brij
, Kiran & Daughter Saina
It was on the tennis court that
Kiran met her husband, Brij Bedi who was a member
of the same club i.e. the Service Club in
Amritsar. He was a University tennis player, a
former farmer and a textile engineer by
profession. He is a renowned social activist in Amritsar .
He is known in the city for education of
children of drug addicts.
They
have a daughter, Saina who is also involved in
community service. She along with her
husband Ruzbeh N. Bharucha, is producing
short films and documentaries. Ruzbeh is
a journalist by profession. He is an author of five
books to date and his latest book and film Yamuna
Gently Weeps, pertaining to demolition of Yamuna Pushta
Slums in Delhi has been released and internationally
acclaimed. For more information visit www.yamunagentlyweeps.com |

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(With
Daughter Saina and Son-in-Law Ruzbeh)
At
the book release of Ruzbeh's Book
"SHADOWS IN
CAGES" |
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KIRAN AND BRIJ BEDI |
"I
couldn't take the UPSE exams without Ama!" (Good
Housekeeping, May 2006)  |
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